We've gotten pretty comfortable, and have had a few nights just ordering in, watching movies and drinking a few glasses of red wine and beers. To me, we have a great connection – we can lay in silence and just hangout on our own and it won't be awkward. and I can't be sure, but I think there are other girls.
Not to mention, the sex is great (although sometimes I wish there were more). Apart from that, we are pretty consistent with messaging, although I don't feel we are going anywhere, which could be very much to do with me, as I can be a closed book.
I was in college and had been seeing this guy for a little over a month and had never felt so strongly for someone else, ever.
We spent a ton of time together and I figured we were heading toward being “official” but it wasn’t a pressing matter on my mind, it just lingered in the depths.
Between now and the last six months, though, a few things have happened. We've told each other how we feel in terms of liking each other, but nothing has progressed in terms of being in an exclusive relationship.
Recently, I got back from Thailand, and we have been out for a few dinners and sleep overs.
I'm scared of feelings because I've been hurt before. As for him still having an online dating profile (the only negative thing I could find about the dude), I will confess that I'm engaged and still have one.
Sometimes we start important talks with an attitude of discovery.
We’re not really sure what we’re hoping to get out of it, we just feel like the talk needs to happen.
Last weekend, we went for dinner with my best friend and her boyfriend, and two of his friends who are married. The next night, he had an event, then he came and met me and all my friends, and stayed over again…It's getting to the stage where I don't want to see anyone else.
I don't want to put pressure on him, but I feel I need to know where I stand so I can either keep dating or we can actually give things a go.