When there are kids involved, it's a major loss for them. They feel especially powerless and shameful if the mother of their children turned out to be not such a great mother. There's a reason for the expression, "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread." 2. Hostile ex-wives tend to extend their bitterness to the new woman in her ex's life.How well has your guy worked through the angst of his marriage ending? Some will try to alienate their children from their father as well as his new partner.
I’m four months into a relationship with a man who has a child who I’m about to meet for the first time and, to be honest, I’m bricking it.So here is my advice about dating people with kids.Take from it what you will: Wait Even though my boyfriend was eager to introduce me to his kiddo early on, we waited a long time before it actually happened.You have to make sure you're serious and your partner is serious before you bring the kiddos into the mix.It's not fair to the kids if you aren't going to stick around.