We had no need for an event planner, just a very well equipped and wonderful family who know how to throw a good party.”We utterly adore Milly’s choice of slinky bridal gown – a deliciously bias cut heavy satin dress with cowl front and a twisted cowl plunge back – so utterly glamorous.Milly accessorised her dress with a custom-made gold belt by Eden Diodati. Three months deep into my break-up, I have experienced almost all of them.First there’s shell shock, followed by denial, and then some combination of paralysis, anger, and loneliness.

Spain is, after all, the home of Tom, in the local church that her grandmother is active in and then later celebrated the marriage at her (rather stunning) family home in Cadiz.When I woke up from that nap, I downloaded Tinder.“How bad could it be? Funnily enough, despite Tinder’s reputation as a hook-up app, most people don’t want to meet soon after matching, but rather engage in hours of meaningless texting—about the latest trendy food hybrid, about how Brooklyn is so expensive—which is something I can’t stand doing with friends, let alone strangers.But eventually, I matched with a handsome enough 30-something who was OK with skipping the small talk.Everyone who could offer something helped out, from the DJ, the transport, the decoration, the design, the catering, the table flowers, and the soloist during the church ceremony.It made the whole thing feel very personal and unique to us, like the imprint of the people who we love was on everything around us.