Often negative messages play over and over in our head and it takes a concerted effort to replace them with positive messages like ‘I am enough’ or ‘I am lovable’.There are many free websites which post daily affirmations for specific areas of your life you want to work on. Gratitude lists At the end of each day try writing down 5 things that you’re grateful for.A man of right standing uses his strength to protect not to harm.If his self identity is defined by how much money he has or what he lacks, that is dangerous. His hard work is admirable but there is more to being a man.Only a man with low self esteem will suppress and destroy others in order to feel superior. A man with low self esteem is shy from approaching, engaging or dating such women; or he will try to bring such a woman down.A man with low self esteem is not man enough to be responsible. He is scared of failure and expectations being piled on him.
There’s a lot of research that shows gratitude can help boost health and emotional well-being because it programs the brain to look for the positive even in difficult circumstances. Doing the thing you don’t like first Self-esteem is seriously damaged when we set goals or make lists of things to do and get to the end of the day not having achieved them.
A man has a low self esteem if he feels he needs to parade his material wealth so that people can take him seriously.
A man has low self esteem if he feels inferior and worthless just because currently he lacks material wealth.
It's only when you operate from the basis of being a whole person with good self-esteem that you can find love based on want and not on need.
If you believe you're unworthy of love, you will attract partners who treat you as if you are.