Since that day - over 3 years ago - I've been asking guys this question in almost all my seminars, and the results are always the same.Most of the guys learning the skills of pickup are just learning them to find ONE good woman.Men want women who accept themselves, know their worth and embrace their flaws with grace and kindness.When you are not afraid to be imperfect and are willing to expose all of your glorious flaws to a man, you will end up with a much better relationship. And nine times out of ten, what they’re asking for is permission to break up with their significant other…because they can’t manage to convince themselves that they need to.
Increasing your faith and finding happiness in His guidance will eventually bring about your heart's desires.
So why do guys work to learn how to be a "pickup artist" and learn all these seduction techniques, when what they really want is just to get a girlfriend?
I believe it's because men have a basic need, and it's illogical, but it is hard-wired in us. We want to have the thrill of the victory, overcoming the challenge, and then having our egos boosted with the validation of sexual POWER.
You shouldn't assume, You should always be aware of how you act in the relationship and always be a considerate and compassionate partner.
Don't be a diva and throw your weight around and think that a quality man who isn't a doormat is going to stick around.